Crushing does leave good effects.

Secretly Crushing is not only Burning but it is Purification of Heart!

For all those single men like me who are secretly crushing on a the wonderful handsome man, I want to share a good gyan today. By turning my pen on spiritual mode today I am sharing ink of my thoughts with you. I am writing on crushing!

I wonder how come yet no author has found the fact that almost major part of gay man’s single life goes around secretly crushing the man who is either in his class, office, neighbourhood or in the same bus he is travelling to. It is painful thing. It is really hard to have all those overwhelming happy cuddly feelings coming for a sweet sugar pie sitting next to you and at a same time pretending like a mid 30s fat woman who is on dieting. Don’t we feel like squeezing that hunk?

No doubt it is painful period of agony.

But crushing also come with some strong benefits. The prolonged crushing phase can give you more than what you can imagine. People think that crushing is either make it or brake it thing. But even in its break it results it gives place for new developments.  Development of new relationships.  Crushing  does leaves some incredible good effects.

Creativity – Crushing makes you more creative. Sitting on back bench of class when you regularly sketch blueprints of your future “plans” on that “property” you enhance your planning, thinking skills which eventually make you a potential boyfriend candidate whose specialty is good in throwing surprise dinner date.

Neglects Irritation – Don’t those cricket fanatics jumping all around us like kid irritate us? Don’t that stupid girls whining on each other bore us? Crushing makes us so much glue to the object of our desire that we really don’t bother about such maniacs around us. We become completely passive to the irritation.

Purification of Heart – Everything comes with expiry date, so the crush too. No matter how big now you feel like holding him forever one day your interest in that guy will be gone and he will end up as just another guy in your friend circle.  But feelings gave for that guy will always leave their significant role. That pain, love, affection will not leave just like that. It will take a way dissatisfaction, sorrow and hopelessness from your heart and will make you more prepared mentally and physically for the guy meant for you J

So guys and gals, If you are crushing on a guy then keep it up. One day you will overcome his crush and you will find more mature, sincere and committed you within you.